11-13-2017, 02:31 PM
(11-06-2017, 09:19 AM)Rafterman Wrote: [ -> ](11-05-2017, 11:25 AM)barq- Wrote: [ -> ]I remember looking after a friend of mine who was suicidally depressed and had stopped eating. She stayed at my house one night and I gave her one diazepam to settle her. Half an hour later we were sharing a pizza and having a relatively normal conversation. She even said something about how benzos made her hungry. Of course the hospital wouldn't give her any because of the suicide risk so she got SSRIs, which killed her appetite, and she attempted suicide again.
I honestly believe that two weeks of benzos with some good psychotherapy would have been much more effective.
I am very sorry to hear that about your friend, Barq-. I wish that I could say that it was surprising to me, but it is all too common. Benzophobic doc's who know perfect well know that the suicide profile of SSRI's is much greater than that of benzo's, but prescribe them anyway. It's beyond reckless to script those to anyone who is suicidal. Might even say that it is "criminal". I think that some doctor's are uninformed or under informed, but that most simply will not prescribe a Scheduled med if there is an alternative. The problem is that AD's are not a viable alternative to benzo's in a client who is that advanced. May I ask if the doc who wrote for the SSRI's was a psychotherapist?
(11-05-2017, 02:17 PM)FirePlaces Wrote: [ -> ]So Rafterman, you are a counselor/therapist? That is so interesting. I will check and see if you wrote more about it in your introduction thread.Hello Fireplaces,
I know I shouldn't be surprised, but anorexia is known to be most hard to overcome and kills many sadly. Shocking that benzo's are not considered as a useful med in this most dangerous medical situation.
barq- , I am sorry that your friend did not get the meds/benzo's she needed to help her adjust her attitude and eat as well. You don't have to answer but I wonder if introducing her to the world of IOPs would be a good thing.
Hard to know and also kind of dangerous as one does not want to second guess the doctors.
I am sorry she tried suicide again and am glad for her that she was not successful. Has she considered asking the docs to try her on some benzos? Is she close enough to you physically that maybe you would go with her to be her medical advocate?
No need to answer -barq. I know I often ask too many questions.
Wishing your friend only the best.
I am retired from counseling, but had almost exactly 30 years in the business before leaving due to illness. Like most psychotherapist's, I have a slew of my own issues. I have suffered from anxiety and depression since childhood. Some of my problems are strictly biological in nature ("neurological's", such as night terrors, sleep paralysis, auditory hallucination's, seizure's and panic disorder) and some problems that are likely behavioral in origin (PTDS, mood regulation disorder). I was warned not to go into my profession by those who thought that listening to others with similar issues would make me worse. They were probably right, but it was a wild ride and I think that I probably helped many, and that I also helped myself in what I learned. I also got a real "behind the scene's" look at the medical industry (which is further complimented by the fact that my wife has over 30 years as an RN). So much going on between the powerplay's on the part of the FDA, DEA, the pharmacist lobby, greedy insurance companies' and their malpractice insurance rates, and doctor's themselves. Anyhow, I tend to be a little longwinded. Sorry about that, and thanks for asking!
The incident with my suicidal friend was a few years ago, and she is doing much better now. Sorry I should have made that clear, but thank you both for the concern anyway.
It raises an interesting question... would you introduce someone to the world of IOPs? A couple of years back I had another friend who was very depressed and suffered panic attacks, naturally he ended up with an SSRI. I suspect that had he either been given a short course of diazepam, or perhaps even just a small number of benzos to carry on himself for emergencies, he'd have been much better off. But after a lot of thought I didn't put him in contact with the IOP world because I think he'd have replaced one problem with another and he'd now be horribly addicted. He knows I have some kind of "source" online, so if he ever went in the direction of buying then I have no doubt he'd speak to me and at that point I would save him from the bad IOPs and scammers.
For context the incident I described was in the UK. If you get hit by a car then the NHS is great at fixing you up, but it is poor on mental health. In many cases someone has to get worse in order to qualify for significant treatment (i.e. more than a doctor throwing some SSRIs at the problem). The doctor who prescribed these SSRIs was a psychiatrist - I don't recall his specialities beyond that. The whole interaction was awkward because he knew I was a psychologist (the PhD type) but I was there in the capacity of a friend. Also, I'm conversant with medical terminology, but I'm not the variety of psychologist who treats people. (Which is also very relevant to the paragraph above about introducing people to IOPs.) As mentioned there is the problem of second guessing a doctor, whilst also dealing with a friend/patient who was in a dangerous situation and on the edge of being hospitalised.
There seems to be a new generation of medical doctors who have been taught to be profoundly anti-benzos. Whereas I accept there are people with both short and long-term need. But the system right now opens up a doctor to criticism if they prescribe for more than two weeks - it isn't impossible, but they need an exceptional reason. The one positive thing I can say about the anti-benzo generation of docs is they understand benzo tapering reasonably well, and are less dismissive of the failings of SSRIs. (In the past it was a bit "You've begun having thoughts of self harm since you started taking these pills? Well, it sounds like we should double the dose then!").
I greatly respect those who have worked in the field of counselling because I'd find that hard on an emotional level. I'm the type who takes problems home with me. But I find your point about learning from others very interesting, and that's certainly true in other areas of my life. When I encounter students who want to go into clinical psychology, they quite often have their own issues which make them inclined to want to help others.
