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I think I grieve for my father (even though he's alive and doing well) every time I think of what it will be like when he's gone.

Always wondered if that's my own internal way of trying to deal with the grief I will experience when that day comes: by having already chipped away at it piece-by-piece over the years. Not that I won't grieve again, but maybe it won't be as intense...I don't know.

FF, wasn't trying to derail your thread. You have my greatest sympathy and I pray you get the comfort and strength to get through this emotional and stressful life event.

FF,

Honey I am sorry for your loss. May your higher power get you through.
We are here for you if you need a shoulder.
I always know I had a hard time grieving so usually in my instances it didn’t hit me until later.

Great thread Charon . Sorry for your loss FF

I have to say .in times of regret and loss and the road of self discovery and the times of pain life trows at you .
You will always get a positive word on this forum .I know what pond life is trolling the net for forums of all type .
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