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thank u, all. u guys, and gals, rule.

have glorious days, all.

ok, just because i am not totally available mentally for all, i gotta let u guys know that my partner almost went into hospital last nite. fever, agony, chills, vomiting.

the worst symptoms i care to hear.

he was fine today. again, the moment he ate, he went into the same symptoms.

he is at the ER with a disabled nurse friend.

so, please forgive me if i am not posting a good deal right at the moment.

(i am just praying that he did eat too much and too quickly. will know, hopefully, by tonight. but, he had me pack a bag again for a potential secondary hospital visit.)

just, am sorry i just got computer access. and, i am being quiet.

always something. this stubborn man still thinks he can go camping in 3 weeks for four days. ah, i don't think so.

ok. that is it.

Geeezzze .. My dear ... After all this is behind you, you have more than likely, had your quota for bad things to happen!! After that you should be in the clear for say...er...er...50yrs? ..

I mean how much can a pair of folks go through for goodness sakes! ..

You know Charon without saying... I care what happens to y'all and I only want good things to head y'alls way ..

Things have just got to lighten up sooner or later, I'm just praying it's sooner ...

We all love you Charon ... Hang in there....

it is an infection with blockage. i just spoke with him. he waited in ER from 8:30 till 6 am when he was admitted.

he thinks he will be out by monday. (I did say u should have been given a script for antibiotics. I tried to get him to drink more liquids, but he is stubborn.)

I have peace about this. And, maybe, as I tell him, this is why u should not go to an upstate festival for four days camping. Not the year when u have had surgery. I hope he listens and just drives up for one day. (He judges the Plants like Your Girls, Ice. dunno, he does.)

I am sure he will be fine.

Wishing you both well and a happy and sweet Jewish New Year. R.

Diverticulitis. And, this time, the opening had an infection. Way inside the stoma.

So, he is back on IV. They put him on Dilaudid, but he said no. Very hard to use the GI tract if one is unused to PKs.

I could not reach him at all yesterday, so I was afraid he was rushed into surgery again.

The first surgeon whom operated on him, whom screamed at him before the nurses, has charges being brought against him for that.

So, the Boss will be examining partner today.

As soon as his GI system starts to work, he will be able to be released.

And, I shall do the cooking again. Be in charge. He was doing so well, he felt he could conquer anything.

He did not drink the gatorade. Did not get me his water bottle to keep filled. Made his own food in which he uses spices and meat. Not allowed.

So, when he is released, its back to my bland diet for him. He can handle eggs, omelettes, grill cheese, soups, and things like that.

Mr. Independent went hog wild. God help me, he is famous round here for roasting pigs. And, he ate like a pig. Spiced up food, as a pig might. Dunno.

But, back on bland diet he shall go.

And, we did not cause the infection. First surgeon screwed up with that. Turns out he was furious to do surgery on partner because he had a vacation planned. But, was on call.

So, the nurses whom witnessed him screaming at my partner, calling him a big baby and a whiner, and worse, is gonna be in more trouble now. he is obviously incompetent at surgery. And, I believe he let a newbie doctor close the patient up. (My medical doctor sister always warned me to not get sick in July or August as all the Doctors had just graduated medical school.)

So, someone was less than sanitary in finishing up the surgery.

The visiting nurses saw no clue. Its impossible to see.

But, he will be okay. We now know the causitive factor. Some unsanitary condition occurred when the stoma was created.

It took 3 1/2 weeks to get this bad. But, Surgeon #1 treated him as an Abuser. Partner does not take PKs. He uses aspirin only.

It was because partner has long hair in a ponytail. He was judged. By the Doctor. And, he must do this a lot for his own staff of nurses to file charges against him.

I never even got to deal with him as an attorney yet.

Partner calls me his bulldog cause I gave such hell to the Obama Care insurance man whom sold him his insurance. Turns out it was only if he lied and said he had an accident.

Partner won't lie.

So, incompetence reigned. And, the doctor is going down. It took a lot of courage for the nurses to turn him in.

But he will be ok, fire. All my love, pudding and pie filling. (yes, I called my son that as a wee baby, and it sneaks out sometimes. the Pudding and Pie filling thing. Don't mind me. I am so happy.)

Have a glorious day, fire.

Yup. Hoping for Monday. But, the Head Surgeon is examining partner right about now.


What kills him, is that he cannot work when stuck in hospital. Very strong work ethic he has.

Here is to hoping for Monday return...

oh, no, Mr. Bill!!!

Partner just called. They are releasing him in an hour.

Ha! I could have treated him with antibiotics cuz i called it to him.

But, let me race around. i did not clean up this room as i do. am not dressed for company.

Argh!!!

Everyone be good. Be happy. Love to all.

okie dokie as long as the person whom drives him home does not race to upstairs, where some womanfolk night wear is drying, no one can fuss about the house.

Now, I gotta shower again cuz just, icky poo pete running around.

So, excuse me for a tad bit. Heck, I put my hair, in this heat, in a ponytail with a braid as he does.

oh no, five minutes away. time to comb hair and put on dress.

tad grumpy. he is just getting work and working every day from the home shop. very independent.