10-06-2019, 04:36 PM
If they are truly your friend and you are brutally honest about your feelings they will put in the effort. You shouldn’t feel manipulative if you are having self harm thoughts. Saying “friend I’m feeling this way. Can you help by being here” is ok. If they are a friend they will want to help.
Have you tried any forums or apps for meeting new friends? I’ve moved several times and lost touch with friends. Don’t really even text or call me anymore so I feel you on the loneliness. I do get socialization at work but I don’t connect with anyone in my field. Usually sit alone at lunch etc. I tried a few apps for socializing for adults. After sifting through all the swingers clubs there were some good ones. Unfortunately 99% of the activities are during times I work so I haven’t tried any yet but they have good reviews.
Another thing I’ve seen is YouTube communities. Fans of certain shows or influencers really connect and a lot become friends through the common interest. Can find something you like, find a popular youtuber and start commenting and interacting. With a large enough fan base someone probably lives nearby.
Have you tried any forums or apps for meeting new friends? I’ve moved several times and lost touch with friends. Don’t really even text or call me anymore so I feel you on the loneliness. I do get socialization at work but I don’t connect with anyone in my field. Usually sit alone at lunch etc. I tried a few apps for socializing for adults. After sifting through all the swingers clubs there were some good ones. Unfortunately 99% of the activities are during times I work so I haven’t tried any yet but they have good reviews.
Another thing I’ve seen is YouTube communities. Fans of certain shows or influencers really connect and a lot become friends through the common interest. Can find something you like, find a popular youtuber and start commenting and interacting. With a large enough fan base someone probably lives nearby.