Excellent post Pop. That "things you didn't do" includes of course things you didn't say. In early days I would be reluctant about doing or saying--I'm not talking about telling people off, the "wish I'd said"s in that category; that always happens, ha. I mean not saying for fear it might no work out the way you might want or expect. Now, I try and say the things I feel that count. Like Twain implies, just let it fly. Saying or doing has its own value, puts the flavor into life, what comes from it shouldn't figure into whether or not you should say a thing in this context. IMHO
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