What are you afraid of? Sharing your phobia(s) will help others!

[Rafterman]

Hello Friend! A comic once said that when polled people "are more afraid of public speaking than dying, therefore most folks would rather be the deceased than deliver the eulogy" I am fortunate and do not mind public speaking and have given many tours and a few TV interviews. My only phobia is a silly one, but my Brother in Law feels the same way. I will be surprised If anyone has the same feelings! Am not afraid of heights at all, but if there is just a simple rail to prevent me from throwing myself over the edge, I am scared to Death. Not suicidal at all but knowing that I could do that freaks me out! Went to the top of the Stratosphere tower in Vegas, what an awesome view, but only walked within a few feet of the small barrier. They should put an 8 foot fence with razor wire on the top and then I could walk to the edge. Best Wishes -FF

Howdy, my good friend,
I can absolutely relate to what you are saying. I have felt that way for years. I first noticed it when my wife and I went to Niagara Falls. I don't know how many of you have been there, but there is a railing that is about 2 feet high (on the American side). It is really there for show because you can step right over it and jump into the Falls if you wish. I, too, am not afraid of heights, but what freaked me out was the fact that a person could simply end their life by taking one step forward. Same thing with balconies on tall buildings. I would wish that they would all have a 6 foot high fence around each balcony, lol. Like you, I am not suicidal by any means---but I just rather not be given such an easy opportunity. Very interesting, IMO. Thanks for bring it up, FF.  Regards, RM

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Hey Rafterman, lol, you ask the best questions lol! Is there a specific mental health disorder name for fear of mayo?  I truly am always afraid that I am emitting weird smells, it's called Olfactory Reference Syndrome, or ORS. It's not severe, for me anyway. But, it's there. I learned about it in school. know it's unrealistic and unreasonable but I still think about it a lot.

Grad school friends and I were going to throw a party where you come as your favorite mental health disorder. lol. Oddly, most of us were pretty attached to the ones we chose. Lol.

Thanks for sharing your fear of weeds!! And fisherman, thanks for sharing your fear of possibly hurling yourself over an edge of a cliff if not prevented!

Thanks, BH. Great contribution, as always. So, so interesting. I had read about ORS, but I must say that I believe I have encountered only one case of it. It must be at least somewhat comforting to know that it is well recognized and shared by some others. I am glad that you don't have a severe case and that it doesn't interfere with your life. That is the best kind of phobia. One that you can make interesting conversation about, but doesn't get in the way of your daily life. BTW, is your advanced degree in a psychological discipline? Just curious, if you care to share.  Have a wonderful day. RM