03-04-2018, 03:45 PM
She knows u are there. That in and of itself is some element of comfort. Its unbelievable to lose a child. It takes a very strong woman to regroup. And go on with life. I am sure she is blaming herself.
She must take her own time schedule to work this out. But, no, one cannot reason with a person with alcohol in them. With my mother, I kept silent. No answer will be correct.
The end hope is that she return to some sort of therapy. They even have online groups for parents whom have lost children. Maybe online is easier cuz one parent wont be judged as much. But, she does not sound ready.
It is good u r there and check on her. But i would not discuss this now. She is deliberately too wasted cuz this is beyond anything she could have dreamt in life. It is that horrible, particularly for a mom, to lose a child. They are part of us. They hold our hearts forever.
Keep being a good man. But i know there are support teams for parents whom lost children. Will she talk to a minister or priest?
I am glad u r there for her so she cannot harm herself. She should not be driving. They even have psychiatrists online to speak with. Via phone. But i imagine that is very costly.
I shall re read thread and see if i can find a group online whom support each other. For just what happened to her.
Just be there if she needs you. But it was awfully difficult to deal with my mother till she stopped drinking once we knew she had cancer return. She won't hear a word you say whilst drunk.
She must take her own time schedule to work this out. But, no, one cannot reason with a person with alcohol in them. With my mother, I kept silent. No answer will be correct.
The end hope is that she return to some sort of therapy. They even have online groups for parents whom have lost children. Maybe online is easier cuz one parent wont be judged as much. But, she does not sound ready.
It is good u r there and check on her. But i would not discuss this now. She is deliberately too wasted cuz this is beyond anything she could have dreamt in life. It is that horrible, particularly for a mom, to lose a child. They are part of us. They hold our hearts forever.
Keep being a good man. But i know there are support teams for parents whom lost children. Will she talk to a minister or priest?
I am glad u r there for her so she cannot harm herself. She should not be driving. They even have psychiatrists online to speak with. Via phone. But i imagine that is very costly.
I shall re read thread and see if i can find a group online whom support each other. For just what happened to her.
Just be there if she needs you. But it was awfully difficult to deal with my mother till she stopped drinking once we knew she had cancer return. She won't hear a word you say whilst drunk.
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