Brother,
sometimes it's the ones you would never expect to do
the things they do... We want to see the good, but sometimes
they just get more and more into "things"...
Believe you me, I have had friends I have know since school days
we did everything together... Then slowly , they changed, I didn't notice
at first mainly because I didn't want to believe it was happening.
Things got worse and worse and I had to admit to myself, that
I wasn't helping at all... I was just throwing coal on the fire...
A lump or 2 then 3 or 4 , before long I was shoveling them on..
For their good and mine, I had to pull back.... Oh they got a bit
perturbed, but so was I.... It comes down to if you really
want to help out the situation, sometimes, you just gotta step back or
you may be drawn into the same conundrum they find their selves in..
You're a good man.... Good guys always try to help out ...
Sometimes, we get caught up in that and end up hurting ourselves ...
<<<Rant over >>>
Best of luck Beeker...
That's something we all can use a lot of
Ice
(03-06-2025, 08:36 PM)Beeker25 Wrote: I wish I was just a little bit closer and in a position to help as real friends out here do. This will be my last ramble of the day. Venting in here has helped more so than I thought it would. I had a friend we will call Lo And that friend meant very much to me. Over the months of subscriptions that he likes to read it became more and more clear I was in denial. I send him his usual read and like usual it’s short by the usual. I finally confronted. Listened to some odd lies like Magazines are only a buck. How I lead him on, I flat out said you are manipulating taking advantage and I’m sorry but this hurts and it must stop now. Time
To be accountable to me!
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