11-29-2015, 02:28 AM
(11-28-2015, 10:19 PM)Shayna Wrote: I am having a real difficult day with my husband. He has been on this nonstop cycle of: Â self pity and loathing, then anger and lashing out at me, either passive aggressive or directly.
I told him I just can't take it anymore. Â I am starting to dread holidays and weekends with him. Â I am sitting outside in my car, because I don't want to be in the house with more of the same.
Shayna I am sorry to hear this is happening to you.Â
I already do dread the holidays, so I cannot be helpful in a way to prevent you thinking that only to say to you that I understand....why someone can.
You have really had a tough time with DH . You cannot take on his stuff as yours and he needs to own up to doing something to change his predicament....it seems to me as I think out-loud with you about this.
I know you say he is in pain and then it makes him go through these cycles....Gosh what a mess for you, I am so sorry about that.